As our system becomes more in balance then the body will allow all that hasn’t been processed to come up to flow out, emotions locked away cause blockages on so many levels of our system. Allowing it to flow, without interacting is the place you are aiming for, see it coming up and just leaving your energy field – you don’t have to examine each piece, it is more about observing and letting go.
Unfortunately, our partners can’t always be there in the way that we need, it is unlikely that will change, so instead we have to find ways to adapt and prevent that from affecting us so deeply.
As your heart opens and wants love, then it is about connecting into your own Divine Self – it is only when we fill our heart with our own soul that things can complete, and we can get true peace.
Looking for it externally will never work, sure it may give you a few days of feeling good, but only leads to disappointment – as we are focusing on love being external, and it never is, it is about love from the internal point, then we can stabilise and grow.
It is hard, but you can do it, just keep breathing in to your own source, being fulfilled in that way and then your strength will unfold.